My Life as Mommy And Wife: We are still alive!!!

So Gabriella is now over a month old. We all finally adjusted to being a family of 4. It was so easy with just one kid. Now I'm having a hard time balancing everything. As soon as I wake up I have to do my list,
Feed and change Gabby
Tell Ava to go to the bathroom and help her brush her teeth
entertain Gabby so I can go to the bathroom and brush my teeth
ask what Ava wants for breakfast. (pray that she says cereal)
make bacon, eggs, and sometimes pancakes (she never wants cereal)
Change my shirt (cause at this point I'm engorged and leaking)
hook up to the pump while bobbing up and down to keep gabby from crying

After that all hell breaks loose. But I'm still working on getting the rest of my day together lol. The little one hates to be put down. So even getting dressed is a chore at this point. Ava wasn't like this but hey, they say all kids are different. Pete is also going back to work in 1 day. Lord help me lol

Ava is pretty much the perfect big sister. She has Gabby on a pedestal and will really drop everything to help her out. However, sometimes she has a hard time with Gab getting attention from us. For instance I was playing with Gabby trying to get her to smile (it's the cutest thing) and I asked Ava to get me one of her rattles. Well I watched her walk by the rattle, pick it up and hide it. When I asked what she was doing, she said "play with me mommy". IT BROKE MY HEART. Now when I'm playing with Gabby and I have her laid out on a blanket or something, I have Ava lay right next to her so she gets attention too. I also make sure to just spend one on one time with her.